Life, Loss and to Live Again – Online Counselling

Facing a New Year 💔

I haven’t written a blog or post for some time – I have been processing my own grief, after the loss of my husband last January, 2024.  And as I’m coming up to the 1-year anniversary, I felt it was time for me to write.  Writing is such a therapeutic process – of which I plan to write about in a later post. As a therapist, I have tried to follow all those “suggestions” I’ve recommended to my clients, and I have to say it has/is such a difficult journey mixed with tears, sadness, laughter, numbness, determination, and …. such an emotional “roller coaster ride”.   (NOTE – I’ve had many personal losses and this one has been difficult to navigate – l will write about losing a spouse, at a later date.  Remember, every person grieves differently, and each loss is unique.)

Facing a new year with our loss can be incredibly challenging.  I invite you to look at some ways to help you cope.

  • Reflect on Memories: Take time to remember the times you shared.
  • Set Small Goals: Focus on small and achievable goals for the new year – giving a sense of purpose and direction.
  • Connect with Others: (This one can be difficult, as many of us don’t want to feel like a burden or making others feel uncomfortable) Reach out to friends, family or support groups.
  • Create a Tribute: Create a photo album, journal, or special place in your home.
  • Practice Self-Care: This is SO important – make sure to take care of yourself physically and emotionally.  Engage in activities that bring you joy and relaxation
  • Seek Professional Help: Consider speaking to a therapist/counsellor for support.

Remember, it’s okay to feel a range of emotions – be gentle with yourself, grief takes time. If you are looking for support, I’m here to help

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Life, Loss and to Live Again Online Counselling

Sometimes, when you feel that the pain is too great, a person may avoid working through the grief – to recognize the pain and to sit with this pain, is an important part of the grief process. I believe that change is possible, even within your darkest days, the process of writing or telling your story allows you to express your thoughts, feelings, and emotions so healing may occur – “to live again”. 

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online counselling/Therapy

I provide personal, quality and confidential online counselling therapy via secure messaging, video or phone conferencing for those 19+ residing in British Columbia.

 ❤️ “Owning your story is the hardest thing you will ever do.”❤️ – Brene Brown

About Me -
Marcia J Cooper
BEd MEd CCC

My experience with grief and loss has been both personal and professional.

I am a certified member of good standing with the Canadian Counselling and Psychotherapists Association. What this means for you is that I adhere to the principles, ethics, standards, and values of CCPA’s Code of Ethics when working with my online clients. To do this work ethically and effectively, my professional development is on-going.

Grief Therapy with Marcia J. Cooper BED MED CCC

Why are Core Values Important in Counselling?

Online Grief Counselling BC with Marcia

Our values represent who we are, a personal code of conduct – like a “guide to behaviour”.

Mindfulness is the core to my practice – it is the human ability to be fully present, to be aware of where we are, what we are doing and not to be overly reactive or overwhelmed by what’s going on. I believe that to be in the moment allows us to accept our experiences, even when those experiences and emotions are so painful, such as working through the process of grief.

Within my work of mindfulness,

the following values are the guides to my practice

Hope

The belief that change is possible – if we don’t have hope then we don’t have tomorrow.

Resilience

When one is faced with a problem, what is the solution? What is it trying to teach you? How can I bounce back, even in grief?

Forgiveness

Allowing our thoughts and feelings of anger, hurt, hatred to be released. Forgiveness doesn’t change the past but allows us to move forward and take control of ourselves.

Understanding

To listen and to learn – one has to understand where a person is at before they can help themselves or someone else.

Life, Loss, and To Live Again Counselling in BC

Empowerment

Allows for the courage to make change so we can be the best version of ourselves.

My Services

Significant Person loss

Pet loss

Injury/Illness Loss

Career Loss

Ghosting

Rates

My fee for service is based on one hour of counselling time at $140.00 per hour, (plus $7 GST).  A session, includes reading emails, messages, note taking, conferencing and correspondence – each actual session is 50 minutes.

I presently have health care provider coverage from Blue Cross/Blue Shield,  ICBC, Green Shield Canada and SSQ Insurance.  Some are direct billed others will be through reimbursement to the client. Other insurance plans or Employee Assistance Programs (EAP) may cover my services – please check with your insurance provider.

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