Life, Loss and to Live Again – Online Counselling

Facing a New Year đź’”

I haven’t written a blog or post for some time – I have been processing my own grief, after the loss of my husband last January, 2024.  And as I’m coming up to the 1-year anniversary, I felt it was time for me to write.  Writing is such a therapeutic process – of which I plan to write about in a later post. As a therapist, I have tried to follow all those “suggestions” I’ve recommended to my clients, and I have to say it has/is such a difficult journey mixed with tears, sadness, laughter, numbness, determination, and …. such an emotional “roller coaster ride”.   (NOTE – I’ve had many personal losses and this one has been difficult to navigate – l will write about losing a spouse, at a later date.  Remember, every person grieves differently, and each loss is unique.)

Facing a new year with our loss can be incredibly challenging.  I invite you to look at some ways to help you cope.

  • Reflect on Memories: Take time to remember the times you shared.
  • Set Small Goals: Focus on small and achievable goals for the new year – giving a sense of purpose and direction.
  • Connect with Others: (This one can be difficult, as many of us don’t want to feel like a burden or making others feel uncomfortable) Reach out to friends, family or support groups.
  • Create a Tribute: Create a photo album, journal, or special place in your home.
  • Practice Self-Care: This is SO important – make sure to take care of yourself physically and emotionally.  Engage in activities that bring you joy and relaxation
  • Seek Professional Help: Consider speaking to a therapist/counsellor for support.

Remember, it’s okay to feel a range of emotions – be gentle with yourself, grief takes time. If you are looking for support, I’m here to help

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Types of Grief

Grief and Loss

“In the end, just three things matter: How well we have lived                                                            How well we have loved , How well we have learned to let go.”  â€“ Jack Kornfield

Grief is a natural response to the loss of someone or something very important to you and deeply loved.  The loss may cause sadness and may cause you to think of very little else besides the loss.

Grieving is the process we go through in adjusting to our emotional “rollercoaster” and to the “new” life we now experience through this loss.

Most importantly, everyone grieves differently – no one grieves the same and there is no normal or expected period for grieving!  Much of a person’s grieving will depend on who they are, the nature of their loss, and their beliefs.

Kinds of Grief and Loss -Briefly Explained

Types of Grief

Everyone’s grief is different – no two are alike!

“Grief is the price we pay for love.” – Queen Elizabeth II

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